Thursday, January 31, 2013

Rice and Noodles and Other Wonders

I woke up this morning with a sore throat.

Which is no surprise considering Newbie has been hacking up a lung and blowing through a wad of kleenex for the past week.

I guess that's what happens when you live with someone who has no sense of personal space and considers wiping his nose on your sleeve entirely appropriate behavior.

My immune system never stood a chance.

Usually when I'm under the weather it means a wholelotta Dora for the half pint.  But today I was inspired by a picture I saw online while I was making my morning rounds through email, Pinterest, and Facebook.

A half a box of noodles and a cup or two of rice later, we were in business.


He has been playing for a solid hour entirely on his own.  This FAR SURPASSES brain-rotting TV time  and boasts the added bonus of being labeled as "sensory play"- a major brownie point when raising a toddler.

Booya.

With an hour of play, I found myself with plenty of time to get a load of laundry started, dig into my Bible study, and blog.  All with a sore throat.  What. is. happening?

We'll have to revisit the rice and noodles tomorrow.  I love me some get 'er done time sans the challenge of entertaining someone who stays focused on one task for a maximum of nine minutes.

Today is a win, folks.

You want to know what wasn't a win?  Saturday morning.  Some of you may have been around here long enough to recall The Great Green Smoothie Mishap of 2012 involving an unfortunate encounter between a wooden spoon, a blender, and my digestive track.

This past Saturday was dubbed The Great Green Smoothie Massacre of 2013.  Very similar results with the exception of the wood, which was replaced with a shredded PLASTIC and FOIL lid from an orange juice container.  I did not discover said lid until Newbie and I had each swallowed enough of a gulp of the smoothie to send me into a frenzy when I discovered that the blueberry seed was not a seed at all but was a chunk of foil. In. my mouth. Nothing like serving your son some shrapnel for breakfast.

(At least it looked good, right? How many of those fancy-pants Pinterest project pictures do you think are actually boasting some kind of epic fail just beneath the pretty pixels?)

I was burdened with some serious guilt when I remembered after his first swig Newbie had exclaimed, "Mommy, dis is da best ice ceam EBER! It is a-licious!" Little did I know then that it had not been a-licious but actually a metal-laced colon disaster waiting to happen.  I checked Newbie's smoothie for any trace of my mistake, and his was foil free.  Thank goodness. Mine, on the other hand, was sprinkled with disaster.  Awesome.

So I had a good hormone-induced cry about it, complete with walking into the bedroom and sobbing to the still-sleeping Hubs that I had effectively ruined another green smoothie and completely fed our son scrap metal for breakfast.

The Hubs is always a trooper for the pregnancy cry.  A few "there-there's" and a "no, we don't need to call poison control" later we were back in business with some redemptive eggs and toast.  (I should mention I also called my mom to confirm the "no need to freak out theory".  She loves waking up to a Brittany-freak-out phone call at eight on a Saturday.  Its her love language.)  It was decided that the foil would have been blasted to smithereens and Newbie had likely not gotten any at all with the one swig he downed before I went ballistic crazy and threw it all out upon discovering the foil.

Wow.  That was a long story.  All that to say, I ruined another good green smoothie on Saturday.  Par for the course.

[Insert smooth transition from smoothie wreckage to new happenings here...my throat hurts too much to do it myself]

I'm trying to carve out time each day to feed my soul, and this rice and noodle combo today really gave me lots of time to dig into my Bible with the added bonus of some reading time in this little pearl of wisdom this morning:


I've heard great things about this book and decided we're one too many toddler-meltdowns into not having a road map for navigating this parenting gig.  I highlighted 50% of what I read today. And put "more highlighters" on the grocery list.  I felt like I was back in my dorm room studying.  I was one tube of raw cookie dough, three diet Pepsi's, and a good many pounds away from being twenty years old again.  It was a beautiful thing.  Learning is something I thrive on, and I loved having the time to get for real with some studying this morning.

Rice and noodles, I love you.

In other news, Mowgli is still growing away.  We hit the 19 week benchmark yesterday, but with all the booger-slinging going on around here, I haven't taken many pictures.  I've felt the bittiest of movement a couple times a day for the past couple weeks now, and its never lost on me what a miracle and a gift this little one is.  Praise God from whom all blessings flow...I can't believe I get the honor of doing this again! We're really looking forward to our ultrasound on Monday. Less anxious nerves and more excitement than this time last week.  Hoping to spend some time reflecting and writing about my thoughts headed into that appointment, but the rice and noodles are losing their luster, so it will have to wait for another day.

The Hubs surprised me with a package of Oreos this week.  I think the timing might have been lost on him, but it was just a perfect reminder of the Oreo party we threw around this time last year.  Making every moment count, baby.

(Mowgli's Oreo party= a BIG deal.  Love this little one so much already.)

Highlight of our Monday appointment will be seeing this little one swim around on the screen and discovering if we're growing ourselves a little boy or a little girl.  We've narrowed down names and are looking forward to knowing who it is we've got in there. =)

Do you find dinosaurs on your sofa?  I do.  And I'm thinking a little brother would be a really good time.

Then I think that big bows and a buddy to play dolls with while the boys are wrestling would also be fun.

Boy or girl, this team can't lose either way. =)

Wishing you all a happy Thursday!  If you have someone under three feet tall living at your house, I cannot recommend a container of rice and noodles enough.  Happy doing. =)

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Right Now and Two

He's two.


And I love two for a trillion reasons.

Two is sparkle.

Two is bedtime stories and lullabies and prayers.

Two is dinosaurs and chomping.

Two is little fingers and Playdoh.


Two is "please don't hit the dog" and "if you do that again it will be a time out."

Two is drinking out of the dog bowl.


Two is eating toothpaste instead of brushing teeth because eating toothpaste is more fun anyway.

Two is "I don't want to go on the potty."

Two is tippy toes on the kitchen floor and baaaarely tipping the bowl into the sink.


Two is messes and messes and messes and a "HIP HIP HOORAY!!! YOU CLEANED IT ALL UP!!!" because a full-throttle clean up is a rare jewel.

Two is "Mommy tuck me in" at night and "where's Daddy?" in the morning.

Two is "Aww, Mom.  You da best eber in da big whole world."

Two is cars and tractors sprawled across the hallway.


Two is "Oooooh! Why not?"

Two is a bedroom stowaway camping out in between two pillows on a queen size bed surrounded by cards and books and all kinds of other treasures found in the midst of post-bedtime tomfoolery.

Two is sliding into home base with a belly flop anytime, anywhere.

Two is "God, tank you for David and da bad giant. And for Jubilee garden.  And tank you for yunch. Amen."

Two is hands dirty and the table and floor too.


Two is "I need it cha-la milk."

Two is drama drama drama when its time to go inside because little boys never stop exploring.

Two is post-bathtime meltdown because it doesn't get better than swimming naked.

Two is "Jubilee i' in Heabin wif Jesus."  and "What is Mowgli playing wif in your belly?  We get him some baby toys when he get out."

Two is endless melodies of Everybody Wants to be a Cat mashed together with Jingle Bells and Jesus Loves Me and Doctor Worm.

Two is footie pj's.


Two is sippy cups on the floor, in the bed, and on the couch.

Two is nap time with the bink and blank and lots of giggles.


Two is awesome.

I never want to forget two.

Because two is grace.

The last year has been hard for me.  Its been impossible, really.  Saying goodbye to someone you never thought you'd have to say goodbye to?  A precious tiny little someone with the softest blond hair and the sweetest little frame that fit just perfectly into your arms? Someone who changed your life backwards and forwards and opened your eyes to things you never knew?  Saying goodbye to that someone?  Impossible.  The past year has been, without a doubt, impossible.

But I've learned first hand that God triumphs over the impossible.

Over the course of the last twelve months, the impossible months of finding out my daughter was sick, saying goodbye, burying her, trying to do life without her, the God of possible gave me a precious gift.  He handed me two.  In the midst of the inner chaos and the hurt and the ache and the challenge, He handed me two and opened my eyes to His grace- making it possible to live and love and breathe and shout for joy even in the midst of the impossible.  He used two to whisper it is good.  He placed two in front of me to remind me that though the goodbye is hard and the ache is deep, right now is still a gift.

Two is right now.

And right now is a blessed treasure from the One Who loves us the most.

Praying that wherever you find yourself today...this week...this month...this year, you have eyes to see the treasures of your right now and the heart to know they were sent with love from the God of Possible.

xoxo,

Brittany

"What is impossible with man is possible with God." 
Luke 18:27

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Portrait of a Saturday

(Project peanut butter cookies)


(Project making room for Mowgli/basement reno)

(Project dog for sale. Just kidding. Just kidding.  Just kidding. Just kidding?)

Saws buzzing in the basement

Lullabies floating down the back hall

Barks from the resident moron every. ten. seconds.

I'm soaking it in and loving the beat of the weekend...crazy mutt and all.

(Project "pond" pre-naptime)

There's something about the little Saturday somethings that are just a salve to the soul.

Happy Saturday from my home to yours.

xoxo

(This wasn't Saturday, but still...playing in his daddy's boots?  I swoon.)

Monday, January 14, 2013

Hello, Mowgli...16 Weeks


Cherishing this growing belly and the little one inside today.  

We've been praying like crazy for this little babe, and I'm so grateful to have had four uneventful months with him or her so far.  We've been in for several check-ups to be sure everything looks good, and we've been given the thumbs-up each time.  In three weeks we'll go in for our 20 week ultrasound.  That one is a biggie.  We'll be going to the specialists to get accurate measurements and to screen for any potential issues.  There's nothing about my past two pregnancies that lead them to believe that something could be wrong this time, but they are doing us a solid and taking extra good care of us this go-around.  

There are a lot of emotions swirling around the anticipation for that appointment, as its almost a year to date from when we had our ultrasound with Jubilee where they told us she was so sick.  The tears come easy these days and the prayers do as well.  Its really surreal to be at almost the exact point in my pregnancy with Mowgli this year that I was with Jubilee last year- just a couple weeks ahead of where we were last year.  While I've been experiencing some difficult emotions as we get closer to this upcoming ultrasound, I'm also giddy with excitement...I can't wait to see Mowgli squirming around on the screen, and I have a feeling the nesting is going to really kick in once we know if this little one is a boy or a girl.  We are so hopeful for only good news in early February, but are very confident in God's plan for Mowgli no matter what it looks like.  

There's been a fair amount of nerves throughout this pregnancy so far, but the truth is that it has been entirely smooth sailing health-wise for this momma and baby, and I am thankful thankful thankful.

Little Mowgli has grown from a poppy seed back in October to an avocado. We waved goodbye to the nausea (yuck!) just before Christmas, and are enjoying a momma with more energy who has been doing laundry and actually making dinner for the first time in weeks. =)

(Sure would be nice if I had spelled "avocado" correctly for the picture, huh? Pregnancy brain!)

Big brother wanted to get in on the fun...

("Cheeeese, Mom!")

This winter we're busy making room for another little.  I'm just drinking in the joy found in the anticipation of our growing family. We've got plans to finish a portion of our basement to make a family room and play room so Mowgli will have a place to sleep upstairs in the current play room.  Newbie's not overly excited about the idea of the toy overhaul we have in the works, but he is thrilled about helping his daddy build with tools!  He talks about Mowgli a lot ("Mowgli is an itty bitty bitty tiny baby") and is Baby's biggest fan until we mention sharing toys or playrooms and that's when the sibling rivalry kicks in. Ha! I think he'll warm up to the idea when he realizes Mowgli won't be able to hold his own for a while after he comes home. =)  

Speaking of the big brother, while I write this, Newbie has effectively pulled out every toy in the living room and worked on a masterpiece in his diaper as well.  Awesome.  Looks like he's also experimenting with what happens when he pokes Opie in the eye.  He. is. all. boy.  Duty calls. =)  

Wishing you a blessed Monday...

Thursday, January 10, 2013

4 week Recap...or some other flashy title =)

I'm not gonna waste time talking about how I haven't blogged in almost a month.  Because its pretty shameful.

Lets just get to the good stuff. =)

We sent 2012 out with a bang.

I grew a baby belly and celebrated five years being married to this guy.  We spent the night in a hotel and had fun remembering how much has changed since we tied the knot five years ago.  Two houses, two college graduations, three+ jobs, three babies, one toddler, and a wholelotta tears, laughs, and seriously charred dinners later I'm still crushing on him just as much as I was on our wedding day in December of 2007.  He makes me happy happy happy.

(14 (13?) weeks pregnant with Mowgli...we are 16 weeks now and everything is lookin' good.  More on Baby #4 next time.)

It was a busy Christmas, but we loved getting to see family and spend time enjoying the slow days filled with jammies and hot chocolate.  Newbie had a blast visiting with his Too-Tee and GD from Texas, and he had a good time cutting it up with his cousins and other grandparents over Christmas as well.  We were in and out and up and down for a solid four days, but it was good family time and Newbie didn't mind skipping his nap for presents and extra attention from his grandparents. =)

Between my big girl camera and instagram, I have a trillion pictures from Christmas, but in the interest of playing catch-up and not posting Christmas Part 1-80, I'll just share a few that are easy to get a hold of right now (lots of extended family pics are still stuck on my phone- my apologies to the grandmas and other family who are getting the photo shaft!)...

(He squeezed some z's in when he could... at dinner time Christmas day.)

(Newbie's written his own song about these two: "Too-Tee and GD are in Texas and I lub dem!")

(Sporting his aunt C's new earmuffs and hanging out with his uncle "Wobagaco")

(Hi, Gam-Pa)

(Hi, Gwandad)

(Christmas morning with my bug.  Love a good excuse to stay in PJ's all day)

(Santa brought a castle and somebody loved it)

Post-Christmas we've been wintering.  Hibernating.  Hiding out in our four walls because the plague is going around and Momma's flu shot doesn't kick in for another week- ha!  We're taking advantage of the down time and investing some time in Potty Boot Camp.  I've been hearing timers beeping and feeling damp carpet in my sleep.  The good news is, he may show up with wet pants, but he can always take me back to the scene of the crime.  I feel like that means there's hope for two reasons: 1) my poor carpet can get a good vinegar and water treatment and not be left for dead.  2) if he knows where it happened, then he knows what happened.  I feel like maybe we can make the connection and get that business to the bathroom.  ...or we could just keep swigging apple juice and taking our chances all day long.  Its not like its making me psycho or anything.  I think I'm getting a twitch.

The wintering has been fun.  Something about January makes me feel like spring is just around the corner.  I think its because when you live in the north, you have to hold out for something or your heart will freeze like the rest of the landscape.  Its just so stinking cold.  And COLD. So we're looking forward to spring.  And enjoying the crunchy snow and the indoor afternoons in the meantime. =)

(buddies.)

(This shot had to make the wintering line-up because he has been cooking with us alllll the time lately.  "I need to bake some eggs, Mom."  "It ok, Mom!  We don't need a wecipe to make toast!  We make toast, ok?")

(We've been working on letters and sounds and surprise!  He knows them...I can't take the credit.  Thank goodness the LeapFrog Letter Factory dvd lived up to all the hype.  Homeboy's got the alphabet down.)

(Don't let these outdoor pictures fool you into thinking I'm a pregnant mom who gears up in the snow garb everyday just to get some fresh air with the kiddo.  This happens once in a blue moon.  But little man adores being outside, so I'm trying to be a big girl and get out there more often. =))

(Little boys never. stop. exploring.)

(We've seen lots of sunshine this week.  I swoon.)

(Too-big warm wool socks and hot chocolate= the perfect post-outside indulgence.  And yes, those are diapers.  I gave up for a little bit yesterday.  Don't judge me.)

Whew.  Do you know how long I've been telling myself I need to hop on the blog and do. something?  For.eva.  It feels good.  Like cleaning out a closet or doing your laundry or something.

I'm off to scrounge up some lunch and psych myself out for another afternoon of Potty Boot Camp.  Wishing you all a happy Thursday!